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IN MEMORY OF CHERYL CHASE

"SOUL MATES FOR ETERNITY"

I am doing this in memory of Cheryl whom is my Soul Mate and whom I will love for all of eternity. I will only write what I know and anything else I may say is from what Cheryl told me in the time we were allowed to share together before her death.

Cheryl Lynne Seeley was born on April 24, 1955 at 3:05 pm. She was born to her mother Shirley Ann Brandenberger and father John Emerson Seeley in Columbus, Ohio. Cheryl’s mother later had a son by the name of Rick whom Cheryl talked about often and loved very much. Cheryl’s mother came down with cancer and took her own life at the age of 35. Cheryl and her brother were then raised by their grandparents and Cheryl treasured them with all her heart.

Cheryl got married at a young age to Frank Chase and had a son Robert Chase. Cheryl did not have a good marriage and it did not last long but her love for her son was never ending. Cheryl’s brother also took his own life when he was in his early 20’s. I tell you these things so you understand that she had some bad luck yet remained a strong enough woman to continue on.

I met Cheryl through a friend many years ago while she was in a relationship with someone else. I thought she was a very special lady and we soon became friends also. Things change, time passes and friends move on. Our lives took different roads but, I never forgot her and thought about her often.

Almost twenty years later I was working with a young gentleman and he asked if I wanted to order something from the store down the street because his mother was owner. I said that I use to know the owner and he said that his mother was always the owner. I found out that I was working with Cheryl’s son and when he called in the order I told him to tell her I wanted to marry her. She laughed and said she wanted to talk to me. I was scared and didn’t call her that weekend like I was suppose too and then she got a hold of me the following Monday. She came to where I was working on Wednesday July 23rd, 2004, and we had lunch together. I went to visit her at her home after work and we spent the whole night talking. I found out during our talks that she had thought about me a lot through the years we were apart also.

Cheryl was making barely enough to get by and I was looking for a place to live. I spent a couple of nights in her spare bedroom because we had spent so long talking and we didn’t know but that broke her lease. Her rent got raised and we talked and decided I should move into the extra bedroom to help us both out. We told each other it was just friends and we could do as we pleased but we spent every waking moment we could together. We kept separate rooms and talked through the night many times and when I got off work I would go to the store with her until she came home, many times falling asleep in a chair as she did paper work. We just couldn’t stand to be apart and if I wasn’t with her she called or messaged me and I her. I knew almost from the beginning we were meant to be together but she was stubborn and had many disappointments in her life and it took me and our friends a long time to convince her that we would always be together.

Cheryl was ill a lot of the time we spent together and I did everything I could for her no matter what it took. She couldn’t believe that no matter what; I never gave up on us or her, many times she asked me why and I could only answer ”because I love you”. I went to work for her and catered to her when she needed it or would let me; she did the same for me when she was feeling well. She was my whole life and still is. We were together for about a year when we were watching a movie called “Notebook” and after that she called me her Noah. It was about a couple that had known each other when they were younger and then ended up together and spent the rest of their lives together even though she grew ill.

They were not always good times like anyone we did argue but they were very few and boy they were whoppers when we did. They became jokes later on after we had worked them out which we always did and we never went to bed mad even if we had to stay up day and night until they were worked out.

I was working a full time job that paid well enough for the two of us and so Cheryl because of her health sold her half of the store to her partner for a dollar, so we could spend more time together. She worked there awhile longer, she sold the store in October and in June gave notice that she was leaving for good. After she gave her notice she was cutting my hair and I asked her to marry me as I had many times before but this time she said “YES” but we were not going to make it official yet.

Cheryl and I took a vacation at a cabin in Mohican the first week in July and while we were there, consummated our love and decided to get married. When we decided to spend the rest of our lives together we were like teen-agers, we made love often and spent every moment I wasn’t at work together. I moved from my room to our room and we made the house our home. We decided to get married the end of September or the beginning of October. We were happier than either of us had ever been in our lives and knew we would be inseparable for the rest of our lives. We put up a screened in tent on our patio and made it as much as we could like the cabin in Mohican. We spent many hours there and shared more love than I thought was humanly possible.

On September 6, 2006 I got up in the morning for work and Cheryl got up with me; she kissed me good-bye before I left and said she was the happiest woman in the world. I came home as soon as I could after work as I had been doing for months and she wasn’t waiting for me outside which she normally was. I entered the house and hollered for her and found her on the floor…she had passed away while I was at work.

Cheryl Chase died September 6, 2006 at approximately 12:30 pm from her heart stopping. The Medical Examiner could find no reason for it, it had just worn out. I have to say that when her heart stopped so did mine. I loved her then and love her still. I will never love another like I do her and I know that sooner or later we will be together again. There is a plaque, a headstone, in Mansfield Memorial Park that has her name on it above where she lays and my name above where I will be laid; and between them are the words Cheryl told me most often…”Soul Mates for Eternity”. Our plots are on top of the hill so that the sun shines on them because Cheryl loved the sun and it shows how our love will shine forever. There are trees on either side of the hill near our place of rest, she loved the out of doors and trees, and they also represent our ever growing and blossoming love. I take a dozen roses and a chair to the cemetery to visit with her every week.

I love you Cheryl and always will.

I want to thank you for reading this and yes it is short and there are many things left out but I didn’t want to make it too long. If you have any questions or know of any mistakes I made feel free to email me.

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